by Cynthia Germain

Christmas is a wonderful time of year…the lights, the songs and especially the presents! But what if the person in your life seems to have everything? A common conundrum with an older adult as they have had a lifetime of accumulating the things they want and need, leaving little room for more “stuff.” But the fun of gift-giving is that it doesn’t have to be about material things. Here are some ideas for gifts that go beyond the ordinary and show how much you care this holiday season.

Consider gifting an experience that creates memories:

• Tickets to a theater or concert event that they’ll enjoy.
• Registration to a class that offers a new skill or hobby.

And then there’s always the gift of time:

• Plan a day together doing something they love, like visiting a favorite park, going to a special restaurant, or simply enjoying a walk.
• Offer assistance with tasks they’ve been putting off, such as organizing photos, tidying a garage, or tackling home repairs.

Or how about a little leisure:

• High-quality blankets, cozy slippers, or aromatherapy diffusers can add warmth and relaxation to their daily routine.
• If they love to read, gift a bestseller or classic book.

And perhaps there’s room for some technology:

• Digital photo frames allow family members to upload photos remotely, keeping their memories fresh and fun.
• Simplified tablets or voice-activated assistants can enhance daily life and keep them connected.

Or consider the causes that they care about:

• Make a donation in their name to a charity or organization they admire.
• Sponsor a shelter pet or wildlife adoption on their behalf.
• Choose gifts that support local artists or sustainable practices.

And then there’s the gifts that give all year round:

• A custom calendar with pictures of family or memorable events.
• From streaming platforms to specialized apps, there are many ways to provide ongoing entertainment.
• Subscription to meal kits that cater to their preferences.
• A magazine or audiobook service tailored to their interests.
• Monthly deliveries of coffee, tea, wine, or gourmet snacks.
• A flower subscription can bring regular bouquets to brighten their home and their day.

Or just make something unique:

• A cozy scarf, hat, or blanket made with love.
• Bake their favorite cookies, bread, or meal they can enjoy.
• Paint a picture or put together a photo book.

The most important thing to remember is that the thought behind the gift is what truly counts. Whether it’s a small token, a grand experience, or simply your time, the best gifts show your appreciation and love. After all, it’s not about having everything, it’s about sharing moments and enjoying the joy of the season.